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Question:  I've got problems with my future mother-in-law and sister-in-law. My boyfriend and I picked out a home together. We've been together 3 years. We moved in together. We planned on getting married but there are so many issues I don't know where to start.

His mother and sister hated me from day 1. I never did anything except treat them nice and had high hopes of being close to them. The mom and sister ignore me, call me names to my face and a year ago came in to our home in the middle of the night and demanded me to get my stuff and move out and for him to choose between them or me. They told my boyfriend if he chooses me that he can say goodbye to his family. They also left threatening messages on my voicemail warning me that I better leave. Shortly after this all of my car tires were slashed. I will also add that my boyfriend and I are in our 30's and pay all of our own stuff so there is no issue with money being borrowed.

My boyfriend goes to family events and holiday dinners without me leaving me alone. I have no family of my own as they are all deceased. We have tried couples counseling and the counselor saw the problems and then nothing was resolved because then my boyfriend went to counseling with his mom and sister. What is the best way to deal with this situation?

Jeff: Your boyfriend is a wimp and a wuss! Sorry to tell you. He needs to stick up for you immediately. Period. No exceptions. If you are going to be married to him, you are not expected to live the rest of your life in fear, alone and upset. This treatment of you is complete bullsh*t. Tell him sternly that this situation will not continue for one more minute. He must tell his mother and sister that he's in his 30's, that they respect his wishes and let him live his life. Any further threats and demands by them to you will not be tolerated. If he does not see that the actions by his mother and sister are flat out disgusting, and he is not willing to stand up for you, you must leave the relationship RIGHT NOW and move on. It will hurt and it may take action like this to make him grow a pair of balls, but it's a bluff you must call. He's obviously not understanding the urgency or importance of this situation. He may need to experience the pain and loss of you to wake him up to reality and make a stand. Yes, it's hard to choose between your partner and family, but what he is doing (or not doing) is absolutely unacceptable behavior. You deserve better and one way or another you will find it. Your man needs to act like one or it's time for you to find yourself a new one. Good luck!

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